So here I was, bored out of my mind at work (it was a really slow day despite me having a lot to do) when I started thinking about men. Not in a sexual way. I started thinking that men have to be the most complicated individuals on earth. Especially the so-called players. So me and my girls were chilling out some time back and one of my friends sees this really hot guy (trust me, he was hot!!!). They kick it, and pretty soon it was movies at his place, drinks and stuff. She made it clear that all she wanted was a memorable sexual encounter with him... on the regular would be ideal, but if that was not possible then a one time encounter would have been great!!! You'd think he'd jump at the idea of no-strings-attached sex... wouldn't you?
Well he did jump, and she was happy. She got what she wanted and she was content. Him? He began avoiding her... Running across streets to avoid talking to her; staying indoors when he sees her going to the local pub... leaving the house when he sees her retiring for the night. Till one day she said enough was enough, and picked up the phone and called him. On further inquiring, he says that he couldn't believe how emotionless she was about the whole thing. He couldn't stand seeing her flirting with other guys and trying to hook up with other guys.
What? I thought men have perfected the art of no-strings attached!
Which brings me to another topic: If she wants it all the time and she's not ashamed to go for it, she's a whore. If he wants it all the time and he's not afraid of going for it, he's the man!!! What is wrong with this picture?
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The only thing wrong with this picture is she got herself a wuss.She needed to find a real brotha.Its true though,however, that men usually expect that chics will have some kind of attachment however little after a one night stand.When the chic doesn't show even the slightest inclination ot this,it scares the guy2death.He thinks OMG,she'she's been doing this all her life.Its the classic macho-primal tendency by men to feel some kind of achievement when they take a gal down.However, when she shows that there is no need to pop the champagne and stamp your chest in victory since what you just did is nothing more than an ordinary walk in the park,it takes away more than just the test of victory and leaves a sour taste in the mouth of the would-be victor.
ReplyDeleteI dont think you can pin this one on men in general. Just like your friend does not align to the generalization that women always get attached; he maybe the exception. Human beings are weird in general and their behavior is ever peculiar, do not expect people to conform to a generalization cause you will always be shocked or disappointed.
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